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HARNESS Participant Companion

Your Interactive Workbook for the SafER Sex Curriculum

👋 Welcome to Your HARNESS Journey!

This companion workbook is designed to help you get the most out of the HARNESS curriculum. Whether you're attending a workshop, taking a class, or self-studying, this resource will guide you through all 13 chapters of "Fearless, Aware, and Protected".

What you'll learn: How to create your own personalized SafER sex plan using the MATCH Framework—Medications, Awareness, Tools, Communication, and Habits. You'll gain practical skills, build confidence, and learn to have conversations that protect your health and honor your boundaries.

How to use this companion: Track your progress through the modules, complete interactive worksheets, access conversation scripts, and build your personal SafER sex toolkit. This isn't just theory—it's hands-on preparation for real-world situations.

🧩 The MATCH Framework

SafER sex isn't about one single choice—it's about finding the right combination that works for YOU. The MATCH Framework helps you build a personalized protection plan.

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M

Medications

PrEP, PEP, ART, Doxy-PEP, vaccines—what medical shields are you using?

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Awareness

Know your status, know your partner's status, understand the risks.

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T

Tools

Condoms, dental dams, lube, gloves—what physical barriers are you using?

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C

Communication

Are you having open, honest conversations about sex, status, and boundaries?

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H

Habits

Testing schedule, daily PrEP, cleaning toys, self-care routines.

Track Your Progress

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Check off modules as you complete them to track your journey!

📚 Curriculum Modules

The complete curriculum is organized into 6 parts across 13 chapters. Click any module to explore.

01

Own Your Health

Take control of your sexual health with confidence and self-advocacy.

Self-Advocacy Mindset Responsibility
02

The Erotic Art of Communication

Learn to talk about sex, boundaries, and desires with clarity and confidence.

Communication Consent Boundaries
03

Condoms: The Frontline

Master the fundamentals of condom use and build your protection strategy.

Barriers Condoms Protection
04

Beyond the Condom: SafER Oral Pleasure

Explore dental dams, gloves, and other barriers for oral sex.

Oral Sex Dental Dams Risk Reduction
05

Lube & Toys

The essential role of lubrication and safe toy use in sexual health.

Lubricants Sex Toys Pleasure
06

PrEP: Prevention in a Pill

Understand Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis and how it prevents HIV infection.

PrEP HIV Prevention Medications
07

PEP: The 72-Hour Window

Emergency HIV prevention after potential exposure—act fast!

PEP Emergency 72 Hours
08

Doxy-PEP: A New Tool

Antibiotic prevention for bacterial STIs—the 3-2-1 protocol.

Doxy-PEP STI Prevention Antibiotics
09

ART: A Work of ART

Antiretroviral therapy and the science behind U=U (Undetectable = Untransmittable).

ART U=U Treatment
10

Pleasure, Kinks, and Fetishes

Explore sexual diversity and navigate kink/fetish communities safely.

Kink Fetish Pleasure
11

Harm Reduction in Action

Pragmatic strategies for sex, drugs, and real-world situations.

Harm Reduction Pragmatism Real World
12

Your Perfect MATCH

Piece together your personalized SafER sex plan using the MATCH Framework.

MATCH Personal Plan Integration

📝 Interactive Worksheets & Tools

Complete these interactive tools to build your personal SafER sex plan.

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My Condom Plan

Build your personalized condom strategy with types, priorities, shopping lists, and confidence builders.

Start Planning
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SOS Emergency Guide

Immediate guidance for urgent situations: condom broke, exposure risks, testing, and symptoms.

Access Guide
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Conversation Starters

18 ready-to-use scripts for boundaries, consent, STI testing, disclosure, and relationship talks.

Browse Scripts
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Pocket Scripts

40+ rapid-fire phrases for any situation. Search, copy, and use on-the-go.

View Scripts
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Relationship Types

Explore monogamy, polyamory, open relationships, and ethical non-monogamy with interactive guide.

Explore Types
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Personal Lubricant Guide

Compare water-based, silicone, oil, and hybrid lubes with safety and compatibility charts.

Compare Lubes
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SafER Sex Cantina

Interactive decision tree for navigating sex in real-world scenarios with harm reduction principles.

Start Journey
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Fearless Foundations

Interactive and printable worksheets for building your SafER sex mindset and habits.

Build Foundation

🌟 Additional Resources

Interactive Ebook

Preview chapters 1-2 of "Fearless, Aware, and Protected" ebook. Full access for educators.

Preview Ebook →

HARNESS App

Interactive mobile app with MATCH Journey, agreements, daily affirmations, and visual library.

Launch App →

Visual Toolkit

Browse 22 professional infographics, worksheets, and educational resources.

Browse Toolkit →

Facilitator Guide

Complete teaching resources for educators and workshop facilitators.

View Curriculum →

Workshop Formats

90-minute, half-day, and full-day workshop options available.

View Workshops →

Presentations

Access PowerPoint-style slides for all workshop formats.

View Slides →

🚀 Ready to Start Your HARNESS Journey?

Don't just learn about SafER sex—build your personalized protection plan today!

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